No matter our political affiliation or high-minded ideals, our desires lay us low and that's oh so good.

Now is the dawn of hopeful resolve and contingency planning.

Some of us Queer people are too young to remember that many in our community famously did not survive the Reagan presidency, by some...

Now more than ever, the world needs Queer love.

My lovely Queerlings, now is the time to lock down your love and figure out whose you are. Now is the time for pragmatic polycules...

Queer people do not have the luxury of grief. We each of us need a plan. The clock is ticking and it is so much later than we think. We...

Whatever it is, just let it go and start loving.

Sexual orientation (including heterosexuality, straightness, etc.) was invented in the 1860s by white cis male eugenicists who wanted to...

Learn to relax and let them all in. Hearts break; they're meant to. But choose love anyway.

It could so often be like this, if we just let it.

It's Queer culture that ennobles us, not Queer oppression. Our suffering just gratifies the sadistic impulses of those who think they...

Don't police Queer possibilities.

Believe it or not, your tender hearts knows exactly what it's doing. So just get out there and go do it.

Many of us have exactly the life that we want, otherwise we would change it.

When someone says they love you but not your "choices," what they're really saying is that they love the reality of you less than their...

It's a fundamentally unloving act to vote against someone's civil rights, even if only inadvertently.

Let's move beyond binaries.

Public displays of affection aren't exclusively just for opposite-sex couples, but are the inalienable right of Queer people everywhere.

You can't control the wave. All you can do is ride it.

Family is anybody with whom we seek refuge.