You don't owe anyone femininity simply to appease their narrow view of what queer might mean. You're welcome in the queer community...

True strength comes from vulnerably sharing your tender heart and then allowing that connection to feed your soul.

Queer love is fierce, fabulous, and fun. It requires no one's blessing or approval.

Lasting love holds fast the fullness of each moment.

Some part of our psyche remembers its primal relationship to place. This bond is somehow both mystical and familiar...

Discussing queerphobia doesn't divide us. It's the actual queerphobia that does that. Claiming otherwise is just gaslighting.

Some gay men live with long stretches of persistent loneliness, and lose touch with our practice of loving...

Creating queer ceremonies, traditions, and rites of passage are essential to our mental, emotional, and cultural health.

Some queer people may never like, trust, or feel fully whole around straight, cis people. And allyship looks like fighting...

If you're tired of hearing about homophobia, just think how tired gay people are of experiencing it...

Straight privilege is thinking that queer people seeking equity want "special" rights.

Think about it: regardless of what you intend, when you tell queer people to "stop shoving" our "sexual orientation in your face," what...

Gay love is enduring.

It's a waste of time and energy to try to prove our intrinsic worth and win the extrinsic esteem of those who meet us in bad faith.

Let's not leave our love unspoken.

Don't forget to share the subtle shades of life with your loved ones.

Parents unable to celebrate the sexual orientation of their children are trading their natural impulse to love for their own reputation...

Curiosity and humility are the parents of empathy.

It's immoral to require those who bear the brunt of the bigotry to also carry the burden of its eradication...

Intimacy naturally deepens as needs get met.