We are all complex mixtures of privilege and adversity. By acknowledging our accidental advantages, we can better empathize with...

I believe that there are no enlightened people, only enlightened actions. In the same way, there are no homophobic people, only...

For instance, if you have experienced bigotry at the hands of your family, have you ever looked them in the eyes and lovingly asked them...

If we're really going to love each other, we're also going to have to love each other's liberation.

For nearly forty years, gay men have demonstrated how to survive a plague with grace and dignity...

In a moment that requires physical distancing, what we also need is radical togetherness.

Do you ever feel like you’re missing your tribe? Like there just isn’t enough love in your life to get you through the day, much less...

Once upon a time I built a fortress around my soul. And around that fortress I poured a moat. To seal myself from the world, such that...

Being part of a chosen family requires that we be fully present in life. And that we look deeply at the reality of it. That we...

Little in the lives of GBTQ men is more challenging than the forging and nurturing of sustainable friendships. In fact some of us have...

Justice requires that each of us love loudly, in the name of our mutual redemption, without regard to risks or rewards. Because...

In times like these, it can be so tempting to hide. We are in quarantine, after all. But don't let's seek safety in our bunkers...