It's time to move beyond despair and operationalize our outrage.

My lovely Queerlings, if you want to know how a government will treat us, just watch how it treats people who are not citizens. Because...

This holiday season in the U.S. we have witnessed a white reconciliation across the spectra of (cis) gender, generation, and class, which...

Gentleness is no shortcoming.

It's 2024 and somehow there are still little Queerlings all over the world learning to fear their families above all else...

The fantasy of a homogeneously "straight" society is just an ode to the accumulation and preservation of power and wealth, as passed down...

The straight grievance industry was designed to monetize bigotry against Queer people for the accumulation and hording of...

We rarely experience true absences of light. Most of our lives are spent on a spectrum, where we can savor the subtle gradients if we...

There's strength in our tears, and hard hearts hold no sway.

Getting lost in life's might-have-been's is a sure way to create more of life's never-was's.

What are tears if not the redemptive release of prior expectations?

Do you ever think of them? The castaways. Those of us kicked out of our families. Left to fend for ourselves as we navigate this brutal...

It might be that you don't know just how close you are to the other side of suffering and the vital energy of renewal.

When someone tells us "things were different then," what Queer people often hear is that you think folks in the distant past were in some...

When you learn that even in this day and age some Queer people have nowhere to turn over the holidays, what do you then feel compelled to...

Let's move beyond celebrating the colonizer mythology of Pilgrims and shared labor, as we remember the apocalyptic U.S. history of...

The far-reaching effects of straight supremacy mean that Queer people have long known pretense preserves false hope where authenticity...

Get up and go be someone's soft landing.

When life provides too few tender mercies, seek refuge in a love that sustains you.

Seek refuge in the silence of those sacred places that feed your soul.